Natural consequences happen naturally without our intervention
As punishment and shaming should not be our intention
We want to help our little ones to learn to make good choices
But we will not achieve this through lectures or raised voices
The purpose of the consequence is to help their growing brains
To link behaviour to an outcome without causing further pain
The consequence arises from a choice the child has made
The parent let’s this happen without jumping to their aid!
Although this is the best approach, we always must remember
To offer lots of empathy, kindness, care and nurture
As our child experiences the impact of their choice
We come along beside them with comfort in our voice
At other times we may decide to use a little intervention
As building those new synapses is always our intention
Logical consequences can sometimes be our saviour
When seeking to link consequences to unhelpful behaviour
Sarah Dillon (c)
Therapeutic Lead National Association or Therapeutic Parents
